Day 13 -- beautiful fireplace, yet nasty words

All I want to say is that 1) I'm happy to get free heating and hot water, and that 2) I feel really special as the only unit getting gas stove/fireplace in the entire building.

All the other unpleasant exchanges can go un-noticed. I'm sure he's found someone else.

Peace out.

Day 12 -- Lease signed, ready to move

Yay! I've got my own place today!

I got home at 9pm, and started moving right away. So far, the wine shelf and the decanter are both in their own place. Some winter coats are also in the closet, so is my vacuum cleaner, together with some books and glasses. Random items.

There is no gas for cooking or heat yet, which should be on by the end of tomorrow (if the technician does show up -- I'd be made if he doesn't, as I've decided to shy away from lab until that happens).

A dinner party is scheduled already for Saturday night. I can't tell you how excited I am!

Day 11 -- Met Mark Bittman

Another long day in the lab -- we hit a road block today. But we are dealing with it, and hopefully it'll go away soon.

The best part of the day, was a "Chewing the Fat" event on food, agriculture and the environment -- an evening with Mark Bittman. What a great event. I learned about the soda tax movement, GMO food, and a ton of other things.

I also ran into a friend on the way home, and spent 30 minutes chatting in the fall breeze. Great conversation, and we'll need to catch up MORE in the new future, of course.

The last thing on the agenda is to coordinate for a house warming dinner among the girls. We have been doing house warming dinners for a while now since everyone just got a new place. I'm glad to be able to join (though unexpectedly) as a host for once.

Tomorrow I shall have my own place. Peace out.

Day 10 -- boost in research

GaN won the nobel prize!

Enough said. That explains/justifies why I spend 12 hours in the lab everyday now, which helps with the breakup.

Bought the renter's insurance yesterday (and forgot to write), so ready to move on. Now I just need to look for a pair of good speakers for house warming!

We will see what comes tomorrow.

Day 8 -- MHC reunion

Had a wonderful day hanging out with my girls. Seeing Ariel after all these years (it's been 5!) happily engaged was great. Hanging with Paris was as relaxing as usual. Ah, I'm so lucky to have them around. (Cynthia, you were excused for your homework.)

I also became aware of one thing -- that I'll never get to go to Hawaii with D. It was on our agenda, that if our friends M & S stay on good terms, we will join them this coming January for their family vacation. They are on good terms, and we are not...What a revelation.

Another random thing to note -- refill at Starbucks was free with a registered Starbucks card. Sometimes tiny things like that would make you happy.

Day 7 -- a bit sad, for no reason

It's a rainy day, and I felt sad in the morning. D has brought me some coffee from Starbucks before heading off to squash, and I was checking emails while enjoying the coffee. He got it just right -- just enough milk to bring down the temperature, and not too much that it would taste like latte. Sadness. The convenience of Starbucks coffee at home is one thing I shall miss.

Among many others.

I responded to my PI's emails, watched some lecture clips on youtube, and headed off to work. Work turned out to be great distraction. I was able to forget about myself until now ( 8p.m.)

Now it's facetime time w/ my folks. Always happy to see them. They are planning on a visit soon. I am already excited. Meanwhile, I shall try to enjoy myself. Hell, I've got a house-warming party to plan!

Day 6 -- I got the lease!

I have a lease to sign, the story behind which is quite interesting.

I am not going to disclose much more at this moment -- don't want to jink it.

Lab was alright. We just had some break-through in our understanding, but also trying not to get too excited yet.

From time to time I still get sad, and couldn't quite just snap out of it yet. Things are on the right track though, so there is that.

I am hopeful for the future.

Day 5 -- fingers crossed

Ok. Quick update.

I sent in the paperwork (rental application, photo ID, proof of income) to a great loft unit. Now I hope it will come through!

Meanwhile, I went for a showing, of a studio at a great location (perhaps even better than my current one) but with awful maintenance and lighting situation. I don't think I can live in that place for a year without going insane, but the walk (and break from lab) was good.

Speaking of a break, I went to a play at Yale School of Drama -- the Paradise' Lost, Clifford Odets's version. SO good!

D is working at GPSCY tonight, so I probably won't see him at all today. (Left home before he got up in the morning.) Now I'm going to update my other blog and just relax for a while...

Day 4 -- busy apartment hunting

It is both fun and frustrating. Fun, in the sense that there is tremendous possibilities; frustrating that 40% of my inquiries were taken before I even got the chance to view the apartment!

Lab stuff also took a downturn, which turned out to be good for me because a downturn requires more mental energy, which means distraction from the breakup.

Another viewing scheduled tomorrow, and there's something else I'm keeping my fingers crossed. I promise that I'll disclose everything soon.

Ah, and I started baking again, with zealous enthusiasm. Made some cookies for M and S last night, and packed them carefully in the gift bags of 4. M shared one with G and immediately regretted : should have kept everything to herself!

They tried to guess the ingredient but missed the tahini part after named (almost) all kinds of nut/seed butters available on the market.  So tonight, I made some muffins, with another secret ingredient (avocado), and can't wait to see if anyone can really taste it in the muffin. Sneaky, ain't I ;P

I did talk to D today about the logistics, and we were able to keep the conversation calm and distant. Big step.

And a big yell of congratulations to our old friend (shit, it's OUR friend) B & P -- they just became parents!

Alright, time to doze off to a movie (night train to Lisbon in case you wonder) and some rose (pinkie swear by woot winery). See y'all tomorrow!